Showing posts with label Domestic Violence. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Domestic Violence. Show all posts

Monday, October 4, 2021

Update from Virginia Knowles




Hello friends!

It's been well over a year since I posted on this blog! I had started it as a project for my summer 2020 internship while I was completing my MA in Ministry at Asbury Seminary.

In the meantime, I got hyper-busy finishing up that last year and then launching into new adventures. My podcast plan expired and I didn't renew it, so if you try to listen to them, you're just going to hear silence. I may resurrect them at some point in time.

One of my biggest projects is writing my newest book, Burned: Rising from the Ashes of Spiritual CrisisBurned is for those who have been burned up or burned out in their Christian religious experiences. It's a collection of transformative and restorative spiritual practices for reconnecting with God when what you've tried before either triggers you or just doesn't work. I've written most of the book already, and have just a few chapters and an appendix left to finish.

I wrote a Summer Update 2021 on my personal blog which will let you know what's kept me busy lately. The short story is that I graduated from Asbury in May, I'm finishing my book, I started teaching high school English and middle school Language Arts part-time at a weekly Christian homeschool program, I'm still homeschooling my youngest teen, and I'm still working part-time for our local crisis hotline.

I also had the wonderful opportunity last fall to teach a Practical Theology seminary class session as a course assistant. I did a presentation via Zoom on research methodology using my paper on The Church's Response to Marital Abuse as my example. 

In addition, when I took a Transformative Teaching class in the spring from the same professor, Dr. Beverly Johnson-Miller, I revisited this research for my student lesson presentation. You can watch the public part of it here: Transformative Teaching Presentation on The Church's Response Marital Abuse

But wait! There's more! This week I'm doing the same research methodology presentation for the current Practical Theology students as I did last fall!  Here is the link for the Slide Presentation on the Research Writing ProjectIt's an honor to do this, and always a pleasure to work with Dr. Johnson-Miller, who privately "commissioned" me for crisis advocacy work when I was on the Kentucky campus this spring. (Edit to add: Just finished the new presentation! I loved teaching it!)

In the future, I hope to do some local or video presentations on this topic. As I told a friend recently, I'll be doing some sort of advocacy work for the rest of my life. 

What is your call?

Grace and peace,

Virginia Knowles

Thursday, June 18, 2020

Episode 6: Interview with Susan Parisher about Domestic Abuse


Jun 17, 2020



Susan Parisher had a distinguished 21 year career as a Military Police Officer. By day, she served as an Army prison warden, but at night, she was a prisoner in her own home, abused by her violent husband. She says she was "rock bottom and faithless," but she desperately cried out to God for help and safety. Then she had to defeat the lies in her head and replace them with the truth of God's love and Scripture. In this podcast episode, we talk about the recovery process, being sensitive among those who are dealing with ongoing trauma/PTSD, and recommendations for church leaders as they are planning sermons.

Susan's web presence:


A few helpful articles from Susan's website:

Susan talks about reading the book of Proverbs every month for three months was one key way to shift toward the truth about her experience. You can start reading it right here, right now. Pick a version!

My last three podcast episodes were about the Church's Reponse to Marital Abuse. If you only have time to listen to one, pick Episode 5!

Grace and peace,
Virginia Knowles


Saturday, June 6, 2020

Episodes #3-5: The Church's Response to Marital Abuse


Podcast Episodes on The Church's Response to Marital Abuse

This three part podcast is about the Church's Response to Marital Abuse. It is based on my research report "Examination and Recommendations on the Church's Response to Marital Abuse" written for my Practical Theology class at Asbury Seminary. You can read the PDF version here.

The three parts of the series are Examining the Church's Response to Marital Abuse, Theological Reflections on the Church's Response to Marital Abuse, and Recommendations for the Church's Response to Marital Abuse.




I have already written extensively on domestic violence. Most of my articles are available on my Domestic Violence Resource on one of my other blogs. On that page, there are also links to many of the books listed in my research.

Recommended books quoted in my research paper:
  • Give Her Wings: Help and Healing After Abuse by Megan Cox 
  • Black and White Bible, Black and Blue Wife: My Story of Finding Hope after Domestic Abuse by Dr. Ruth A. Tucker 
  • A Model for Marriage: Covenant, Grace, Empowerment and Intimacy by Jack O. Balswick and Judith K. Balswick
  • The Life-Saving Divorce: Hope for People Leaving Destructive Relationships by Gretchen Baskerville
  • Divorce and Remarriage in the Church: Biblical Solutions for Pastoral Realities by Dr. David Instone-Brewer
  • And Marries Another: Divorce and Remarriage in the Teaching of the New Testament by Dr. Craig Keener
  • No Place for Abuse: Biblical and Practical Resources to Counteract Domestic Violence by Catherine Clark Kroeger and Nancy Nason-Clark 
  • Suffering and the Heart of God: How Trauma Destroys and Christ Restores by Dr. Diane Langberg
  • Survivor Care: What Religious Professionals Need to Know about 
    Healing Trauma
    by Dr. Christy Gunter Sim
  • The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma by Dr. Bessel van der Kolk, Dr. Bessel. 
Recommended articles mentioned in my research paper: